3 Ramadan 2018: Temper Temperance

A quick temper will make a fool of you soon enough – Bruce Lee

It only took a couple of hours after yesterday’s post for me to be tested in a situation where someone was completely and absolutely … most likely unknowingly … rude. It was a strange experience, in the tight confines of an elevator, and it caught me by so much surprise, I could not but utter a few words under my breath, which I rarely ever do!

I was tested in a situation where I had no option but to travel, even if temporarily, with this complete stranger who had no idea that they had just triggered my natural fight or flight response. Soon enough however, I realised that those few words under my breath had not made any difference to the situation and I probably looked strange, if not equally rude, doing it. It was an unnecessary negative reaction in the holy month that neither led to a change in a situation nor, more importantly, did it bring me closer to god; on the contrary, and despite the simple situation, it went against the spirit of the holy month.

Quickly, and practically, god had provided me with an opportunity to realise that acceptance manifests itself even in our reactions to simple annoyances and in managing our tempers.

May god give us the wisdom and strength to manage our tempers in the rare big moments and the more regular small moments.


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