It’s not hard to make decisions when you know what your values are. ― Roy Disney
It is easier to naturally fall back onto an external reason as to why we despair, and we often forget that sometimes it is from within.
Besides generally engaging in negative internal dialogue leading to despair, there are two other internal sources of despair, one of which is not sticking to your values when making decisions or when faced with various questions and challenges in life.
Why does it lead to despair?
Because not sticking to your values means that you are making a decision you don’t want to make, and that leads to despair as you live out a decision you did not want.
However, while we aim to stay strong and stick to our values, the reality is that we may slip sometimes, so how can we avoid despair?
By remembering that even our wrong decisions happen for a reason and besides working hard to reverse such decisions or related consequences, what we experience is in our destiny and will eventually make us better people.
We learn, and we move on.
Sometimes it takes a wrong turn to get you to the right place.― Mandy Hale
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