You cannot control what happens to you, but you can control your attitude toward what happens to you, and in that, you will be mastering change rather than allowing it to master you. – Brian Tracy
I spoke about destiny in an earlier post, in a larger sense, it is about letting go of events and matters in our lives that we cannot control.
Whether it is a child who is adamant about disrespecting, or a person determined to bring negativity to others, or natural disasters or acts of war, or even a bankrupted employer, these are all matters that we cannot control whatsoever.
What we can control however, is how we respond to them and more specifically, responding assertively to events out of our reach or influence.
The first step is to never blame oneself.
The second is to to recognize that just because a certain undesirable event is happening, it does not mean that I am a victim of it without any say in how I can reduce its impact on myself and my loved ones.
The third step is to seek the learning and the change that is meant to happen within me as a result of me experiencing or witnessing this event for nothing is by chance.
God grant me the serenity
to accept the things I cannot change;
courage to change the things I can;
and wisdom to know the difference.
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