Don’t compare yourself with anyone in this world…if you do so, you are insulting yourself. ― Bill Gates
One of the causes of desperation is a worry about not measuring up, or not being as good as a person or another, or feeling “un”special because of a lack of attention online or offline and basically feeling inferior to others.
Inferiority is the antagonist of being the best we can be.
The key is to recognize that we actually don’t need to measure up to anyone other than ourselves. We should not seek to be as good as or better than anyone and we definitely should not seek our worth from other people’s attention, online or offline.
Earl Nightingale is one of my favorite inspirational speaker and thinker. So in today’s post, I wanted to share with you what he said about inferiority from his audio about self esteem.
People have an inferiority complex because they compare themselves to others.
Everyone is inferior in some areas and superiour in others. So a well adjusted person does not get bothered if someone is better than them in something. Inferiority and superioirity are reverse sides of the same coin. The coin itself is spurious.
You are neither … you are simply you. You as a personality are not in competition with any other personality because no one is like you. You are unique and no other person is supposed to be like you. God did not create one person and said this is it, he made each person unique.
We are all different and nothing is by accident.
Your job is to know yourself and like yourself.
You will accept the things you cannot do and appreciate the things you can do and accept yourself as one of a kind.
During this blessed month, I ask god to give us a true perspective of ourselves and the ability to see the good in ourselves and be 100% original!
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